Dating SuperStar.com
General
About Dating SuperStar.com

About WolfGang
Warning About Personal Information

Protection
Privacy
User Agreement
Contact Dating SuperStar.com

Features
Super Forums
Submitting Dating Stories
Submitting PickUp Lines
Submitting Do's & Don'ts
Submitting Pictures
Rating Pages
Replies Pages
Member Levels
SuperStar Voting
Submitting Questions
Dating Challenge
Dating Advice
Date or Not?
Music
Registration
Your Profile
Login/Logout
Members
Email
Questions
Why do I have to register and login?
Am I still logged on after shutting down?
Will my answers to Dating Advice, Dating Challenge and Date or Not? be saved?
Why should I accept the registration "cookie"?
Why are banner ads on your site?
How do I win free stuff and how often can I win?
How do I become a SuperStar?
How do I get a URL for my Picture?
Is Dating SuperStar.com Really Free?
What is this month's promotion?
What's in a "prize pack"?

About Dating SuperStar.com

I've made plenty of mistakes dating... we ALL have! But we've all had some success too. (I hope!) Well what if we got together and shared these dating experiences and learned from each other's successes and mistakes? Better yet, what if we brought in the other sex and got them to give us their opinions? If we combine the two, I think we'll all improve our dating skills, have a LOT of fun, and make new friends at the same time.

Dating SuperStar.com has a few different sections. Super Forums are message boards that let you rate and reply to every posting. The interactivity and competition continues with the SuperStar Voting. The highest rated postings in each Super Forum have a limited amount of time to get enough votes to win Dating SuperStar status. Whoever wins gets a prize pack with lots of cool stuff and gets their posting listed on the Dating SuperStar page. There are lots of other fun, interactive things to do. The Dating Challenge, Dating Advice and Date or Not? are cool activities to help you tone your dating skills or make decisions about dating. There is your own Email account, a Questions forum and the Members area that let's you learn more about each other.

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About WolfGang

Sometimes life doesn't let you express yourself enough. Sometimes it's especially difficult to express your creativity. Well Dating SuperStar.com is my creative outlet. This is my first full-scale website and I've spent over a year developing it. The expenses have come out of my pocket and my free time. It's been completely worth it! I've enjoyed learning new things and meeting new people. My real satisfaction, however, will come from watching others enjoy my work.

Dating SuperStar.com is 100% free. It will stay that way as long as I'm in charge. I want you to enjoy my creation and not worry about things like getting loads of spam emails or not having your privacy respected. You see I'm not going to sell your information to anyone nor am I going to share the personal information you give me with anyone else. Read more in the Information Protection, Is Dating SuperStar.com Really Free?, User Agrement and Privacy sections.

The Internet is NOT TV. The Internet allows us to have a much better entertainment experience. With TV we can't learn from others or share something about ourselves. I believe sharing who we are with others is one of the most important things we can do. It helps us learn from other people and it helps us grow socially and emotionally. I have a lot to share and I also want to grow by learning from you. Plus, we should have fun at the same time. That's the purpose of my websites: to have fun sharing who we are and learning from others. I've tried to setup a forum for sharing and learning that is easy to use, nice to look at, technologically sound and filled with fun features and appropriate forums. I am always available to help and I would love to hear from my members with any concern, problem, question, recommendation or complaint they may have.

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Warning About Personal Information

The Internet is the best thing that ever happened to communication. There is so much good that can come from it. And while there are millions of stories about how good the Internet is, there are a few stories about the dangers that lurk here. PLEASE be careful about who you give personal information to and be even more cautious about meeting up with new people. People aren't always who they type that they are. Let your imagination run wild here at Dating SuperStar.com, but don't lose your good judgment.
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Super Forums

The best dating message boards on the Internet are at http://www.datingsuperstar.com/forums.asp! Enter a Story about dating, a PickUp Line, one of your Do's & Don'ts of dating, or a Picture that either helps the reader learn more about dating or entertains them. Better yet, one that does both! After that, you can reply to other postings with constructive criticism or additional insight. For every posting, you also can rate them on a scale of 1 to 5. The top-rated postings are then eligible for the Superstar Voting page. These message forums are "super" because you are able to sift out the good postings from the bad and you can give your own opinion on which postings are bad, good and the best.

For easy navigation, the Super Forums can be sorted by the date they were submitted, the title of the posting, the name of the person who submitted the posting, the number of replies, and the rating. Keep clicking on the column heading and you can toggle between sorting in ascending and descending order. The Super Forums also show each member's "Member Level" by the color of their Name. The Member Levels are Attractive, Cute, Good-Looking, Adorable, Stunning, Gorgeous, and SuperStar. The more postings a member makes, the higher their Member Level is. When someone reaches SuperStar Member Level they will receive a prize pack! Before you jump into the Super Forums please read my Warning About Personal Information.

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Submitting Dating Stories

To submit a Dating Story enter http://www.datingsuperstar.com/storiespost.asp in your URL. There is a form in the middle of the page that has 3 sections: SuperStar Name, Title and Dating Story. If your name doesn't appear after "SuperStar Name" then you need to login at this page: http://www.datingsuperstar.com/login.asp. If your name does appear enter the Title for your Dating Story and then the Dating Story itself. The title is what people will see on http://www.datingsuperstar.com/storiespost.asp so make it catchy if you want them to view your Dating Story. What you enter in the Dating Story area can be any kind of dating experience, good or bad, that you're willing to share with others. Click on "submit" to upload your Dating Story. If you have any errors you'll be returned to the page and a red-colored message will indicate what needs to be fixed. Your Dating Story needs to be either instructive or entertaining for people to rate your Dating Story favorably. The better rated your story is the more likely you are to becoming a Dating SuperStar.
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Submitting PickUp Lines

To submit a PickUp Line enter http://www.datingsuperstar.com/linespost.asp in your URL There is a form in the middle of the page that has 3 sections: SuperStar Name, Title and PickUp Line. If your name doesn't appear after "SuperStar Name" then you need to login at this page: http://www.datingsuperstar.com/login.asp. If your name does appear enter the Title for your PickUp Line and then the PickUp Line itself. The title is what people will see on http://www.datingsuperstar.com/linespost.asp so make it catchy if you want them to view your PickUp Line. What you enter in the PickUp Line area can be an opening line or it can be a more elaborate story on how you met someone. Click on "submit" to upload your PickUp Line. If you have any errors you'll be returned to the page and a red-colored message will indicate what needs to be fixed. Your PickUp line needs to be either instructive or entertaining for people to rate your PickUp Line favorably. The better rated your PickUp Line is the more likely you are to becoming a Dating SuperStar.
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Submitting Do's & Don'ts

To submit a Do & Don't enter http://www.datingsuperstar.com/dodontpost.asp in your URL There is a form in the middle of the page that has 3 sections: SuperStar Name, Title and Do & Don't. If your name doesn't appear after "SuperStar Name" then you need to login at this page: http://www.datingsuperstar.com/login.asp. If your name does appear enter the Title for your Do & Don't and then the Do & Don't itself. The title is what people will see on http://www.datingsuperstar.com/dodontpost.asp so make it catchy if you want them to view your Do & Don't. What you enter in the Do & Don't area can be any kind of dating preference or a story about something that you liked or disliked on a date. Click on "submit" to upload your Do & Don't. If you have any errors you'll be returned to the page and a red-colored message will indicate what needs to be fixed. Your Do & Don't needs to be either instructive or entertaining for people to rate your Do & Don't favorably. The better rated your Do & Don't is the more likely you are to becoming a Dating SuperStar.
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Submitting Pictures

To submit a Picture enter http://www.datingsuperstar.com/picturespost.asp in your URL. There is a form in the middle of the page that has 4 sections: SuperStar Name, Title, URL and Picture Description. If your name doesn't appear after "SuperStar Name" then you need to login at this page: http://www.datingsuperstar.com/login.asp. If your name does appear enter the Title for your Picture, the URL and then the Picture Description. Rather than uploading a picture to my site, I need the location of your picture on the Internet. To find out exactly why this is and how to do it, please refer to How do I get a URL for my Picture?. The Title is what people will see on http://www.datingsuperstar.com/picturespost.asp so make it catchy if you want them to view your Picture. What you enter in the Picture Description area can be a description or a short story about the picture.

Click on "preview" to check that your Picture looks correct. If you have any errors you'll be returned to the page and a red-colored message will indicate what needs to be fixed. If there are no errors you'll be sent to http://www.datingsuperstar.com/picturespreview.asp. If your Picture looks good and the information is what you want, click "submit". Otherwise, hit Back on your web browser to change the information on http://www.datingsuperstar.com/picturespost.asp. Your Picture needs to be either instructive or entertaining for people to rate your Picture favorably. I reserve the right to delete your picture and cancel your membership so please use good taste. The better rated your Picture is the more likely you are to becoming a Dating SuperStar.

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Rating Pages

This FAQ applies to the following pages: http://www.datingsuperstar.com/storiesrate1.asp, http://www.datingsuperstar.com/dodontrate1.asp, http://www.datingsuperstar.com/linerate1.asp, and http://www.datingsuperstar.com/picturerate1.asp. Clicking on the Titles of the postings on the Super Forums lets you rate that particular posting. An example of a URL for a rating page is http://www.datingsuperstar.com/linerate1.asp?msgID=117. The "msgID" will change for the different postings. On this page you have 5 buttons to choose from: Definitely Worth Reading, Recommend Reading, Not Bad But Not Good, Do Not Recommend Reading, Totally Not Worth Reading. These options have values of 5 through 1, respectively. Select whichever option you feel and click "Rate It". The higher you recommend it, the higher the rating is that you give it. If you return to a rating page that you have already rated you will see a more in depth summary of how that posting has been rated thus far. On the Super Forum home pages you will see a column titled Rating which indicates how that posting has been rated thus far. You also have the ability to send this particular posting to your friends by entering their email near the bottom of the page and clicking "Email Friends".
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Replies Pages

This FAQ applies to the following pages: http://www.datingsuperstar.com/linesdisplaypost.asp, http://www.datingsuperstar.com/dodontdisplaypost.asp, http://www.datingsuperstar.com/storiesdisplaypost.asp, andhttp://www.datingsuperstar.com/picturesdisplaypost.asp. Clicking on a number in the Replies column on the Super Forum home pages lets you reply to that particular posting. An example of a URL for a rating page is http://www.datingsuperstar.com/picturesdisplaypost.asp?msgID=56. The "msgID" will change for the different postings. On this page you have 3 fields: Name, Title and Reply. Reply should be the only thing you need to enter. You can reply with constructive criticism, a story of your own about the topic of the original posting or a helpful tip. You can reply as many times as you like and send this particular posting with your friends by entering their email near the bottom of the page and clicking "Email Friends".
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Member Levels

Each Super Forum identifies 7 different "Member Levels" as the picture below shows:



Each Member Level represents a higher level of participation in that particular Super Forum. Participation is calculated by the number of postings (either main postings or replies) made in that Super Forum. Once you reach the required number of postings within a Super Forum your SuperStar name will be bolded and display in the appropriate color. For example, if you reach "Cute" status in the PickUp Line Super Forum your name will be bolded and light green on the main page of THAT Super Forum, not in the other three. The different levels in escalating order are:
Attractive Cute Good-Looking Adorable Stunning Gorgeous SuperStar
Once you reach the orange color I will contact and let you know that you've won the title of DatingSuperStar! Of course, if any of your postings are inappropriate or submitted merely for the purpose of reaching a member level then I may delete those postings, thus lowering your total. You may have noticed that I haven't told you how many postings you need to reach each level... well, you're right! You'll just have to figure it out! Good luck and have fun getting there.

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SuperStar Voting

This SuperStar Voting FAQ applies to the following pages: http://www.datingsuperstar.com/storiesvote.asp, http://www.datingsuperstar.com/linesvote.asp, http://www.datingsuperstar.com/dodontvote.asp, and http://www.datingsuperstar.com/picturesvote.asp. This is where you cast your vote for which posting is worthy of the title "Dating SuperStar". You can only vote once for a particular posting. When a particular posting garners enough votes then the posting is moved onto the SuperStars page for that respective Super Forum. The owner of the posting is sent an email with special access to a Super Stars page. There they will enter their address and I'll ship them a prize pack.

Postings are chosen for the voting pages based on the following criteria:
  1. The posting is older than 1 day but younger than 3 months that means your message has only 3 months to garner enough votes. The timeframe is subject to change.
  2. The average recommendation or rating must be a 3 out of 5 or higher if none of the postings have a rating above 3 then the voting page will be empty. This minimum rating is subject to change.
  3. The rating for the posting must be among the top 4 or tied for the top 4  this makes the voting page very dynamic. The 4th highest rated posting on the voting page will be moved off as soon as another posting gets a higher average rating.
When you see a posting that you want to vote for use the email function to get others to vote for that posting with you. Keep in mind that the posting could be gone before they get there! You are also required to input some comments in the form before voting. Your identity won't be revealed so be honest. Please make your comments constructive or encouraging. Winners or "Dating SuperStars" can be seen on the following pages: http://www.datingsuperstar.com/storieswinners.asp, http://www.datingsuperstar.com/lineswinners.asp, http://www.datingsuperstar.com/dodontwinners.asp, and http://www.datingsuperstar.com/pictureswinners.asp.

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Submitting Questions

To submit a Question enter http://www.datingsuperstar.com/questions.asp in your URL. There are 2 Questions Forums: Questions for Girls (http://www.datingsuperstar.com/girlsquestionspost.asp) where guys or girls ask questions but only girls answer and Questions for Guys (http://www.datingsuperstar.com/guysquestionspost.asp) where girls or guys ask questions but only guys answer. Choose your forum.

There will be a form in the middle of the page that has 3 sections: SuperStar Name, Title and Question. If your name doesn't appear after "SuperStar Name" then you need to login at this page: http://www.datingsuperstar.com/login.asp. If your name does appear enter the Title for your Question and then the Question itself. The title is what people will see on http://www.datingsuperstar.com/girlsquestionspost.asp and http://www.datingsuperstar.com/guysquestionspost.asp so make it catchy if you want them to view your Question and respond to it. What you enter in the Question area should be a fairly specific question that you want to receive an answer back for. Click on "submit" to upload your Question. If you have any errors you'll be returned to the page and ared-colored message will indicate what needs to be fixed.

Keep in mind that the Question forums are not Super Forums because you can't rate the Questions you can only reply to them. The Super Forums are about collective learning whereas the Questions forum is about getting direct answers.

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Dating Challenge

The Dating Challenge (http://www.datingsuperstar.com/challenge.asp) is the crown jewel of Dating SuperStar.com. First you choose if you are a guy or a girl. (Simple enough, right?) Then you enter a few names of some people in your life. (The challenge is more fun if you can envision the people.) Then you begin the Dating Challenge. The names you chose will be used in a story about dating. At the end of each story, you choose the next step. You continue choosing the next step until you get to the end of the challenge at which point you'll receive a score on how well you did. Your score will be recorded and averaged with all your other Dating Challenge scores. You'll also be able to see where you rank among the other members. There are over 75 different scores for each dating challenge which means you can have a lot of fun and maybe learn something too! The decisions aren't easy and the scores can go pretty low. Use your best judgment and most of all enjoy!
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Dating Advice

Dating Advice (http://www.datingsuperstar.com/advice.asp) is some quick, humorous advice with a cleverly disguised deeper message. Choose whether you want advice for a guy or for a girl. Either way, you'll be prompted to answer a few questions in order to personalize your advice. Click "submit" and you'll get your advice. If you enjoy the Dating Advice, encourage your friends to try it too by emailing them at the bottom of the page. Email me if you are interested in writing your own Dating Advice. If I decide to post it, I'll send you a prize pack! Either way, enjoy the Dating Advice!
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Date or Not?

Date or Not? (http://www.datingsuperstar.com/dateornot.asp) is a fun, interactive game that is helpful too. You describe a guy and a girl by selecting the appropriate choice for each category. Click on submit to find out your compatibility rating. The compatibility rating will be a score between 0 and 100 with 0 being totally not compatible and 100 meaning completely compatible. You will also get a personalized interpretation of your score and a break down of each category. You can use Date or Not? as much as you'd like and even send the results of each test to your friends. I hope it is helpful but either way, enjoy!
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Music

If you enjoy dance music then you'll enjoy DJ Venom. DJ Venom has spun his remixes across the United States and now plays regularly in the live music capital of the world. DatingSuperStar.com is the exclusive on-line home of DJ Venom's remixes. He's provided some samples for you to download and check out here: http://www.datingsuperstar.com/music.asp. All of his downloads are Windows Media Audio files and can be played on a number of free programs.

To download a song to your computer, click on the button for the song you want, choose a directory on your computer to save the file in, and click "OK". In order to keep your download time to a minimum, the remixes are in Windows Media Audio format and have the file extension ".wma". They can be played with Windows Media Player. If you have a computer with a Windows operating system then you may already have Windows Media Player - it should be one of the programs on the "Start" menu. If you don't have it or want the latest version, click the button underneath the last remix button. That will open up a new browser window to a Microsoft page that will let you download the program. When you are done downloading everything, open up Windows Media Player and add the remix file by clicking File then Add to Media Library and finally Add File. Find the file in the directory you downloaded it to and click "OK". Now double click the file (e.g. DatingSuperStar.com#1.wma) to listen to it.
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Registration

To access most of the content on Dating SuperStar.com you need to register as a member by going to http://www.datingsuperstar.com/register.asp. Registration is free and your information will be protected. The publicly available information you register with can be viewed under the Members section. There are 5 sections that you are required to fill in. Here are those sections along with some of the restrictions:

SuperStar Name. This name can be between 4 and 15 characters long and include any upper or lower case letter, a number, or a hypen (-) or an underscore (_). This name will accompany all of your postings and will be your email address (i.e. Name@DatingSuperStar.com). Symbols and special characters aren't allowed because they may make your email address invalid, thus not allowing you to send personalized emails. When you login, your SuperStar Name will NOT be case-sensitive, however, it will display and be stored with the capitalization you use. The SuperStar Name you choose cannot be changed. After registering, you will receive an email containing your SuperStar Name - please save this information. If you forget your password, you can enter your SuperStar Name at http://www.datingsuperstar.com/login.asp or http://www.datingsuperstar.com/register.asp and your password will be sent to the email account you gave us.

Password. This code can be between 4 and 15 characters long and include any upper or lower case letter, a number, or a hypen (-) or an underscore (_). When you login, your Password will NOT be case-sensitive. The Password you choose CANNOT BE CHANGED. Your Password will not be public information. After registering, you will receive an email containing your Password - please save this information. If you forget your password, you can enter your SuperStar Name at http://www.datingsuperstar.com/login.asp or http://www.datingsuperstar.com/register.asp and your password will be sent to the email account you gave us. 

Email. This should be your primary email account. It is used for other members to contact you, for you to be notified if you win a prize pack, to verify any information or requests you send me, to send you your password should you forget it, and to receive promotional information from Dating SuperStar and our partners. Your Email address will not be public information. Read more about this at Privacy and Email. You must enter a valid email address to complete your registration. Feel free to get a web-based email account for you to use with Dating SuperStar.com. Not entering your own email address will detract from your experience. You will be able to change your email address at any time you want by going to http://www.datingsuperstar.com/updateinfo.asp. No two members can have the same email address.

Birthday Month. Use the pull-down list to choose which month you were born in. This piece of information is a good ice-breaker for you and the other members. It tells them a tiny bit more about you without divulging anything too personal. The Birthday Month you choose cannot be changed

Sex. Choose the radio button for either Male or Female. Since your gender may not be obvious from your SuperStar Name, your gender is necessary to help distinguish you. The gender you choose cannot be changed. If you choose to register under a different gender than what you are be prepared for the confusion that other members will have and the responses and inquiries from members of the same and opposite gender - you may not like it too much so please be honest!
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Your Profile

All registered members are invited to tell us a little bit more about themselves. You can do so by going to http://www.datingsuperstar.com/updateinfo.asp. All of this information except for Email is publicly available under the Members section. You must be logged in to edit your profile information. There are 6 sections that you are asked to fill in. Here are those sections along with some of the restrictions:

Email. This should be your primary email account. It is used for other members to contact you, for you to be notified if you win a prize pack, to verify any information or requests you send me, to send you your password should you forget it, and to receive promotional information from Dating SuperStar and our partners. Your Email address will not be public information. Read more about this at Privacy and Email. You must enter a valid email address to complete your registration. Feel free to get a web-based email account for you to use with Dating SuperStar.com. Not entering your own email address will detract from your experience. You will be able to change your email address at any time you want by going to http://www.datingsuperstar.com/updateinfo.asp. No two members can have the same email address.

Age. This is simply how old you are. If you are under 13 you will be asked to return when you are older. Your age does NOT update automatically. It is your responsibility to update this field on your birthday. Please keep in mind that putting your actual age will improve your experience as you will be communicated with according to that age.

Picture URL. Share something about yourself by hotlinking to one of your pictures. If you have pictures stored on a web server then enter the URL for the picture in this field. To find out more on how to do this click on How do I get a URL for my picture? This field is optional but highly encouraged. Please refer to the User Agreement so that you are aware of the guidelines for posting certain material on this site. If you want to upload a new picture, you can do so at any time.

Picture Caption. If you have provided a Picture URL then you need a caption for the picture. It should describe the picture and tell us something more about you. You can include a short story on the picture if you like and encourage others to contact you. If you leave Picture URL blank, then your Picture Caption will be blank. If you change the Picture URL at any time don't forget to update the Picture Caption too.

Dating Frequency. Use the pull-down list to choose which Dating Frequency describes your dating lifestyle. There is no metric by which each category is determined - this is merely your opinion. Of course, as your dating lifestyle picks up, slows down, or becomes committed, you should update your Dating Frequency. This piece of information helps other members get a feel for your personality.

More About You. Dating SuperStar.com is about sharing dating experiences. When you do that you share a part of who you are. Here's an open forum for you to share something personal about you to the other members. Maybe you'd like to share a story, your website, your favorite link, details on your friends or what's important in your life. You can change this field whenever you like. Keep in mind that this information is publicly available so please don't include things like your address, phone number, credit card numbers etc. With the Internet and Dating SuperStar.com you have to be responsible. Unfortunately, you can't count on others always being responsible. Read Warning About Message Boards for a perspective on sharing very personal information. Of course, the Internet is for having fun and I'll do everything in my power to make sure that you have a great experience here!
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Login/Logout

Once you have registered, you can access your Dating SuperStar.com account at any time from any computer with an Internet connection by simply using your SuperStar Name and Password. Enter your SuperStar Name and Password in the form and click "submit". Neither SuperStar Name or  Password are case-sensitive, however, your name will be stored with whatever case you login with for your SuperStar Name.

If you forget your password, go to either at http://www.datingsuperstar.com/login.asp or http://www.datingsuperstar.com/register.asp and enter your SuperStar Name (not case-sensitive) in the form and then click "Email Password". Your SuperStar Name and Password will be sent to the email address you currently have in your profile. If you forget your SuperStar Name then you will have to email me a request for your login information at Wolfgang@DatingSuperStar.com from the email account that you currently have in your profile.

When you register on Dating SuperStar.com, the computer you are on receives a "cookie" which simply stores your login name and password and the expiration date of the cookie. Find out more about this cookie by clicking on Why should I accept the registration "cookie"? The cookie will keep you logged in on that computer and save you from having to login every time you go to Dating SuperStar.com. On every page, under your SuperStar Name, is a link to login and a link to logout. You can also logout by going to http://www.datingsuperstar.com/logout.asp. Be careful when you use a public computer; logout when you are done using Dating SuperStar.com and don't have your computer automatically save your login information on http://www.datingsuperstar.com/login.asp.
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Members

The Members section (http://www.datingsuperstar.com/membersretrieve.asp) is a very good way to get to know your fellow members and let other members get to know you. You will find the following information on members: username, gender, birthday month and the date they joined. You may also find out the following optional information: dating frequency, more about them, age, a picture and a caption for the picture. Other members will be able to find out this information about you as well. The members section can be sorted according to the following: user name, gender, birthday month, and date they joined. Keep clicking on the column heading and you can toggle between sorting in ascending and descending order. Sifting through the member pages will give you a better idea of who you are talking to.

When you click on a member's name you will be redirected to another page with all of their information. At the bottom of the page is a link to "Email This Member". You will be able to send an email subject and body to this member's personal email account. You won't be able to see the member's email nor will you be able to change the email address it comes from (i.e. You@DatingSuperStar.com). You are also able to send email to non-members of Dating SuperStar.com. Read more about these email options by clicking here.

The final component of the Members section is updating your information. Click here to read how to "Update Your Profile".
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Email

Dating SuperStar.com let's you send email to other members and to your friends. Please refer to the User Agreement to understand your responsibility when using this feature. There are three ways to use email through Dating SuperStar.com:

Wolfgang@DatingSuperStar.com. This is how to send me an email. Most of your questions can be answered on this page but if you need contact me with a question, concern or comment use this email.

[your member name]@DatingSuperStar.com. As a member of Dating SuperStar.com you are given a web-based email account that you can send emails with. Please note: you will NOT receive emails sent to [your member name]@DatingSuperStar.com because they are not forwarded to the email account you registered with. Once you are logged in go to http://www.datingsuperstar.com/dssemail.asp and you will be able to enter an email address, a subject and a message body. You can send the email to multiple people by separating their emails by a semi-colon. The people you send the email to will not be able to reply-to your email address but they will be able to email you by going to the website, finding your SuperStar Name, and then emailing you using the "Email this Member" link. You may want to provide instructions on how the person(s) you sent the email to can contact you.

Email this Member. When you go to http://www.datingsuperstar.com/membersretrieve.asp and click on one of the member names you will see a link to "Email This Member" at the bottom of the page. After you click that link you will see a form with your Dating SuperStar.com email address and the SuperStar Name of the person you want to email already in the form. You just need to fill in the Subject and Message and click "Send Email". Your email will be sent to the personal email address of the member you chose. You won't be able to see their email address, however. The member you send the email to will not be able to reply-to your email address but they will be able to email you by going to the website, finding your SuperStar Name, and then emailing you. You may want to provide instructions on how the member you sent the email to can contact you.

Sharing. When you view specific content on Dating SuperStar.com you will see a form that allows you to send that content to your friends. Simply by entering a valid email address in the form and clicking "Email Friends" an email will be sent with a direct link to that content and a piece of information such as a title or a score. You can send the email to multiple people by separating their emails by a semi-colon. This feature is here for your convenience. It is a fun way to share content with your friends and encourage them to become members as well. The more of your friends that are on this site the more fun your experience will be.
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Privacy

My interest is to serve you, a customer and contributor to Dating SuperStar.com. Please read the Privacy policy so that you are aware of how your information will be used and protected for your benefit. The Privacy statement  is available at http://www.datingsuperstar.com/privacy.asp.
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User Agreement

Before participating in Dating SuperStar.com read through the User Agreement. This document discusses the rights that you waive by participating in Dating SuperStar.com, the privileges you have and a general code of behavior to ensure your enjoyment and the enjoyment of other members. When you register on Dating SuperStar.com you are agreeing to these terms and conditions and to being held responsible for any violation. The User Agreement is available at http://www.datingsuperstar.com/agreement.asp.
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Contact Dating SuperStar.com

Since I travel occasionally and my phone number keeps changing, the most reliable way to contact me is through email. I check it almost daily. My email is: WolfGang@DatingSuperStar.com.
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Why do I have to register and login?

The login page (http://www.datingsuperstar.com/login.asp) and registration page (http://www.datingsuperstar.com/register.asp) are required because they are beneficial to every member's experience at Dating SuperStar.com. The content that members post to Dating SuperStar.com is contained on restricted pages. The only way to get past the restriction is to have a "cookie" on your computer. You get this cookie by either registering or logging in. You can only login if you have registered already and remember your name and password.

Without the restricted pages, then non-members would be able to access all of the content and anonymously post information. Considering that registration is free and doesn't require your personal information anyone can still see all of the content. However, this is a deterrent to those who aren't really interested in the site and lets those who are interested rest assured that their information is accessible only to people who are interested in the site as well. Also, when people have to give their information on this site it tends to make them act less recklessly. As a member you will appreciate these measures and they will improve your experience here at Dating SuperStar.com.
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Am I still logged in after shutting down?

You are still logged onto Dating SuperStar.com on that particular machine until you either logout (http://www.datingsuperstar.com/logout.asp) or delete the "cookie" even if you shut the computer down or close your Internet browser. When you login (http://www.datingsuperstar.com/register.asp) or register (http://www.datingsuperstar.com/register.asp) a "cookie" is sent to your computer's hard drive. That cookie will remain on that machine for a few years. The cookie will bring up your login information every time someone on that computer visits Dating SuperStar.com. If you have logged out that information will not be recalled; if you haven't then when someone visits www.DatingSuperStar.com they will be logged in under your name. Ideally this is designed to save you from logging in every time you the site. Please refer to Login/Logout for tips on how to safeguard against someone getting your login information.
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Will my answers to Dating Advice, Dating Challenge and Date or Not? be saved?

No, your answers to Dating Advice (http://www.datingsuperstar.com/advice.asp), Dating Challenge (http://www.datingsuperstar.com/challenge.asp), and Date or Not? (http://www.datingsuperstar.com/dateornot.asp) are NOT saved. These features use variables that are only saved for your session. You will lose them after closing your browser, shutting down the computer, or waiting a few hours. The only information that is kept will be what is sent from the "Email Friends" function on the pages and your Dating Challenge scores. Those scores can be viewed at http://www.datingsuperstar.com/guyschallengestandings.asp and http://www.datingsuperstar.com/girlschallengestandings.asp
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Why should I accept the registration "cookie"?

The cookie is to save you from logging in every day. It is a simple text file containing some code that only Dating SuperStar.com will recognize. If you are on a computer that other people have access to, you should logout when you are done. The logout link is located just underneath the top banner ad. If you wish to delete the cookie, run a search in Explorer for "*cookie*" and you will see the directories where the cookie resides. The cookie does not send your information out to everyone on the Internet nor does it increase the spam mail you get. There is no harm from the cookie and it provides a convenience.
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Why are banner ads on your site?

WolfGang isn't a large corporation. I enjoy making websites that make people happy. However, there are many direct costs that come out of my pocket such as domain name registration, hosting, incorporating, design work, marketing, etc. I'm hoping that the banner ads will enable me to recover these costs so that I can continue developing additional functionality and more websites that employ my philosophy of entertaining you for free. Find out more at Is Dating SuperStar.com Really Free?. Feel free to let me know what advertisers you like and dislike and which ones you would like me to get.
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How do I win free stuff and how often can I win?

There are a number of ways to win free prize packs:
  1. If you submit a posting in a Super Forum and it collects enough votes you'll earn the title of Dating SuperStar and be awarded a prize pack. Find out more at How do I become a SuperStar?
  2. 20 referrals gets you a prize pack. Just send an email to your friends inviting them to check out Dating SuperStar.com and cc WolfGang@DatingSuperStar.com. If anyone registers with one of those email addresses within the next 30 days then I'll credit you with one referral. When you get 20, I'll email you to let you know you've won.
  3. If you find an error or a bug on my website, send me an email describing it. If you are the first one to tell me about it and it turns out to be a legitimate bug then I'll credit you with one, five or ten points (depending on how major the bug is). Once you get 20 points, I'll send you a prize pack. Errors and bugs include: misspelled words, incorrect hyperlinks, broken functionality and the like.
  4. Sometimes I send out random prize packs for no particular reason. For example, if I read a good reply, the 500th member to register, the first member to reach each Member Level, the posting with the most replies... it could be anything but you have to be an active member to have a chance!
  5. If you write your own Dating Advice (http://www.datingsuperstar.com/advice.asp) in a similar fashion to mine, submit it to me, and I decide to post it.
  6. Occasionally I will run some promotions to reward the best members and encourage people to help grow or improve the DatingSuperStar.com community.
The contents of a prize pack changes every few months but you can always count on getting at least a "SuperStar" t-shirt. Promotion winners will receive a prize pack except that their t-shirt won't be a "SuperStar" t-shirt. You can win as often as you participate. However, I may choose not to send you a prize pack every time. :-)

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How do I become a SuperStar?

Becoming a Dating SuperStar isn't going to be easy... but it will be worth it! There are 2 ways to become a Dating SuperStar:
  1. Submit a posting in one of the 4 Super Forums. If it becomes one of the top-rated postings then it will move on to the SuperStar Voting page. If the posting gets enough votes before its time expires, the author will earn the title of Dating SuperStar!
  2. The highest Member Level is "SuperStar". Once a user reaches that level in a Super Forum their name will be displayed in bright orange and earn the envy of all his or her friends.
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How do I get a URL for my Picture?

Unfortunately, pictures use up a lot of memory. Since memory costs money and my site is completely free, I can't afford to store everyone's pictures. Therefore, I need your picture stored on another site. If you give me the URL (i.e. http://www.datingsuperstar.com/images/logosuperstar17c.gif) then I can link to it without having to use up memory. This is called Hot Linking. If you click on that last link you'll notice a few things: 1) there's nothing else on the page, 2) the file ends with a picture file extension (such as ".jpg" or ".gif") and 3) the URL contains "http://". This is the format I need in the URL box on http://www.datingsuperstar.com/picturespost.asp.

The directory on a website works the same way Explorer or File Manager does. On my home computer, I have that same file at C:/MyWebs/datingsuperstar/images/logosuperstar17c.gif. http://www.datingsuperstar.com/images/logosuperstar17c.gif is where that file is stored on my website. Now what you need is a place to upload your pictures. You need to get a website or domain hosting. You can easily get this for a few bucks per year. If you look on a search engine (i.e. www.google.com, www.yahoo.com) for web hosting you will find a lot of sites that offer this. For your convenience, I've negotiated a special web hosting deal with www.Rodstar.net. They are very low cost to begin with plus DatingSuperStar.com members receive 2 free months when they sign up for a year! They also will help you find a domain name if you'd like one.

There are a couple of things to watch out for:
1. Free web-hosting sites such as http://angelfire.lycos.com/, http://www.brinkster.com/Default.asp, and http://www.msnusers.com will let you upload your pictures into a directory but they will not let you Hot Link to them. Hotlinking is when you link to images or NON-html files from another host. Hotlinking is typically not allowed on free accounts. Even though you can see the picture when you type in the URL, Dating SuperStar.com won't be able to Hot Link to your picture.
There is potentially a way around this, however. Change the extention of your file to ".txt" instead of a picture extention. For example, if your picture is title "sun.jpg" change the file name to "sun.txt". You can either edit the name in Explorer or save as from your photo editing program and manually enter ".txt" after the name. If the URL you are trying to use is "http://www.geocities.com/username/images/sun.gif" then you will instead use "http://www.geocities.com/username/images/sun.txt" after you upload the file "sun.txt".

2. It's important to realize the difference between getting some web space and getting a photo album. A photo album (i.e. http://photos.yahoo.com/, http://www.ofoto.com/Welcome.jsp) doesn't give you a URL for your picture. You want to look for "web hosting" which is essentially the same as file manager except on the Internet instead of your computer.

Let's look at an example. Rodstar.net has graciously offered us some web space and a directory called "images" under a directory called "datingsuperstar." The image name is "sun.gif". This is now my URL for that image: http://www.rodstar.net/datingsuperstar/images/sun.gif. The screen looks like this:

Note on this picture that the URL on the "Address" bar is exactly what I have above. You need to cut and paste what's in the Address bar into the URL box on http://www.datingsuperstar.com/picturespost.asp. If you don't see the Address bar, pull down View from the menu in Internet Explorer, select Toolbars and make sure Address Bar is checked. Please contact me at WolfGang@DatingSuperStar.com if you need additional assistance.

For a limited time Rodstar.net will host your pictures for you. They have made a directory just for you: http://www.rodstar.net/datingsuperstar/images/. Send an email from your registered email account (so I know it's you) to me at WolfGang@DatingSuperStar.com with your picture attached (size < 200kB). Then go to either http://www.datingsuperstar.com/picturespost.asp or http://www.datingsuperstar.com/updateinfo.asp and fill in the Title and Picture Description fields and the Rodstar.net URL above with your picture name and file extension. For example, if you have a picture named "Crazy-eyed-Willy.jpg", send me the picture in an email and then use "http://www.rodstar.net/datingsuperstar/images/Crazy-eyed-Willy.jpg" (case-sensitive) in the URL box. You will see your picture within 48 hours. This convenience will last until we've used up 5MB of Rodstar.net web space. If you know about a free hosting service that allows Hot Linking please email me with the information and I'll send you a free prize pack.
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Is Dating SuperStar.com Really Free?

The truth is that I am NEVER going to require you to pay money to use any part of Dating SuperStar.com. The answer to the question above is YES Dating SuperStar.com is free. However, I do have the ability to make some money through banner ads. Making money is NOT one of my goals for developing this website, however, it is a metric I will use to measure the success of my work. What I mean by "my work" is both the quality of Dating SuperStar.com and my ability to market the website effectively. I would like to recoup my expenses. I won't bore you with what those expenses are or how much they are but I'm hopeful that I can do it because then I can continue to upgrade this website as the members wish.

Use this website knowing that you'll be consulted before any major policy changes take effect. Keep in mind that I would ideally like the banner ads to be helpful for you. If you find a banner ad of interest and purchase a product through my banner ad you should feel good about making a contribution to my efforts. Contributing entertaining and instructive content is a great contribution too!

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What is this month's promotion?

Promotion #1. The 1,500th member to join will win a prize pack. The 1,500th member will be determined by the 1,500th valid email in my database and not by member ID number. Also, if a member of DatingSuperStar.com referred the 1,500th member he or she will receive a prize pack too. You can refer a member by sending him or her an email and cc-ing WolfGang@DatingSuperStar.com or by using one of the "Share this with friends" email features on any of the content pages (Ratings, Replies, Dating Challenge, Date or Not? or Dating Advice). If the person with the email you sent the content to signs up with the same email, that counts as a referral. The first member to refer the 1,500th member will be awarded the prize pack.
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What's in a "prize pack"?

A prize pack is the coveted reward only sent to members that distinguish themselves by helping the DatingSuperStar.com community above and beyond what most members contribute. Because of the accomplishment that prize packs represent they cannot be purchased. The contents of a prize pack changes every few months but you can always count on getting a "SuperStar" t-shirt and some other freebies. For the June 2003 promotions, a prize pack will contain a DatingSuperStar.com pen, magnet, non-SuperStar t-shirt and one other surprise - personally, I think the surprise is the best part! Here's a picture of the design of the t-shirt:

The back design of the t-shirt will be revealed at an appropriate time in the future - prize pack winners will be the first to know. The dollar value of a prize pack will vary but the pride you will have in displaying your prize pack will remain priceless! Read here and here to find out how to win a DatingSuperStar.com prize pack. Good luck!"

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